When We’re Closest To God

When We’re Closest To God

Throwback to little Matt enjoying the swimming pool. I wasn’t thinking about whether I was too fat or whether it looked gay to hold my hands in a particular way. I was in the moment, enjoying the water and the sunshine and the love of my family. Maybe this is when...
I Have Thoughts About the “Freedom March”

I Have Thoughts About the “Freedom March”

Perhaps you’ve seen this image around Facebook in the last couple of days. 200 EX-LGBT MEN, WOMEN RALLY TO SHOW FREEDOM THEY’VE FOUND IN FOLLOWING JESUS, the headline eagerly proclaims. I’ve seen this article shared on the The Evangelical Covenant...
Some Thoughts About Romans 1

Some Thoughts About Romans 1

Conservative, non-affirming Christians often cite Romans 1 when condemning gay Christians like me… I posted this as a response on Facebook this afternoon, but I thought maybe it should be shared more widely. We Christian gays are VERY VERY aware of Romans 1. We have...
Innovative Love Coalition: #GodOurAlly

Innovative Love Coalition: #GodOurAlly

Let’s talk about Innovative Love Coalition and why this project is so important for the Christian church. Music has always been one of the most significant ways that I connect with God, and I know I am not alone. From a very young age I was...
#OnceGay: Thoughts on Bethel Church’s New “Ex-Gay” Campaign

#OnceGay: Thoughts on Bethel Church’s New “Ex-Gay” Campaign

Yesterday Bethel Church in Redding rolled out a shiny, newly-revamped campaign featuring beautiful pictures, glowing testimonials, happy people and even a hashtag, #OnceGay. While I appreciate their sincere desire to honor God and to help people walk in freedom, I...