Exploring the Intersection of

Sexuality & Spirituality

Matt Nightingale

TEACHER, PASTOR, MUSICIAN, SPIRITUAL DIRECTOR

As a gay Christian, I am passionate about the intersection of sexuality and spirituality, and I work to create safe, sacred space for people exploring these identities.

Let’s journey together.

Take the First Step

Here are some ways I can walk this journey with you.

Spiritual Direction & Support Groups

Whether in a one-on-one session or a small group setting, I will help you clarify your values and needs and take the next step.

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Book Me

Whether you need a panelist, a preacher or a worship leader, I’m available for your event.

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Blog and Podcast Appearances

Check out what I’ve been writing and talking about lately. And don’t forget to subscribe to get the latest content delivered straight to your inbox.

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Sign up for the next support group

This six-week package includes weekly 90-minute group sessions and two 50-minute one-on-one sessions with me. It is my hope and prayer that as we journey together, you will find hope and encouragement for your present situation and peace and discernment for your next steps.
This Is My Story

In November 2016, my former wife, Luanne Nightingale, and I gave a talk at TEDx Sonoma County. “Choosing Gratitude and Hope” tells the painful but ultimately redemptive true story of our 23-year mixed-orientation marriage and our choice to end it with gratitude and hope.

Read the latest on my blog

I write to encourage and strengthen you. Check out my latest post below, or view the whole blog here. Don’t forget to subscribe to my mailing list below so I can send new posts directly to your inbox.

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Pray Away

Pray Away

Before I started "Pray Away," the new Netflix documentary about conversion therapy, I dug out my journal from the fall of 2002. I had just come out to my wife and ministry colleagues that spring, and I had started Christian counseling to deal with my "broken"...

Listen to my podcast appearances

I’ve had the privilege of being a guest on several podcasts. Listen to those episodes here, and then subscribe to my mailing list so we can stay connected.

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Recovered Life

Recovered Life

From “Ex Gay” to Authenticity with Matt Nightingale

Helping You Navigate Your Journey.
Matt is very compassionate, empathetic and supportive. He’s always honest about his own experiences, both positive and negative, but he is able to reframe things in a positive light.

Jordan, Support Group Participant

Let's Connect
I'd love to chat with you. You can send me an email, or just use the form to contact me. You can also text or call me directly at 918-408-6082.

And let's definitely connect on social media!

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