Exploring the Intersection of
Sexuality & Spirituality
Matt Nightingale
TEACHER, PASTOR, MUSICIAN, SPIRITUAL DIRECTOR
As a gay Christian, I am passionate about the intersection of sexuality and spirituality, and I work to create safe, sacred space for people exploring these identities. Let’s journey together.Take the First Step
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In November 2016, my former wife, Luanne Nightingale, and I gave a talk at TEDx Sonoma County. “Choosing Gratitude and Hope” tells the painful but ultimately redemptive true story of our 23-year mixed-orientation marriage and our choice to end it with gratitude and hope.
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I Don’t Believe in Ex-Homosexuals
On Thursday, I had a conversation with some fundamentalists on Twitter who were convinced God does not love and affirm LGBTQ+ identities and relationships. One of them told me that I had never really known God, because if I had, God would have taken away my "same sex...
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